Waiting, waiting, waiting! Sometimes waiting is just...so loooong and boring! BUT it's actually a really important thing to learn and to be able to do - even if it's not that fun all the time. :) I was reading another blog (I have no idea which one it was...otherwise I'd give them the credit for this idea that I read there!), and this mom had a SUPER idea. It's common sense really...but I just never thought of it before! She was talking about some of the things you can do to prepare a child under the age of 2 yrs. (or around that age) for a new baby that is coming! And this of course fits right into where we are at right now...Tate will be just under 2 yrs. old when his little sibling arrives. I've been trying to prepare him by teaching him to be gentle, and talking about babies and letting him help me get things ready for the baby...but I'm not sure how much of all that he understands. I think he still thinks that "the baby" is his little doll. haha. :) Oh well. He is very gentle with his doll and gives her lots of hugs and kisses...so at least he thinks that babies are a good thing!
Anyways, this other mom had a really cool idea on how to prepare your 1st child for the arrival of the 2nd. It's simply this: teaching your first child to WAIT. Why didn't I think of that? haha...oh well. So recently when I'm busy with something (like finishing the dishes or brushing my hair, or doing my devos) and Tate needs me to come and play with him, or to come help him pick up the mess he made (haha :) )...I tell him that he needs to wait a little bit and then I will come help him. He usually cries when I tell him this...but if I am busy and I know it won't take long until I'm done, I make him wait a little bit. Because when the baby is here I'm sure I won't be able to jump up and come with him IMMEDIATELY every time he needs me. Of course, if he needs something important I would help him right away! I always make sure to come after a few minutes of him waiting though and help him with what he wanted help with...so he understands that if he just waits for a bit, I will still be coming to help him and I'm not saying 'no', I'm just saying 'wait.' So I'm hoping this will be helpful for us! He does seem to be catching on to the idea of "waiting", but he still doesn't like it. :) Waiting's just not that fun I guess! ;)
By the way...on a totally different topic...do you see the piles of snow we still have up there in that picture?!?! It is melting, but there's still quite a bit of snow to go!!
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